Spoken Words Can't Be Retrieved...

2012-01-26T11:19:00.000-08:00

A good compliment is accepted by everyone but a nasty remark, or just two hurtful words can take away a smile from anyone's face. As humans, our attitude commands us to think more than twice before appreciating someone but our tongue won't stop a second in backbiting, underestimating or hurting someone......

It is important for us to understand that spoken words can't be retrieved, therefore we should think before we speak. Hurting someone will have you labelled a mean person, appreciating others will encourage others to do good and in a better manner.

Thoughtless words spoken by a man or a woman, no matter how independent or dignified he or she be, can have a negative effect on the speaker and the listener. The ice then created just because of a few words cannot be broken easily and the distance grows.

On the other side of things, two heartfelt or consoling words can help the eyes from watering, can help a heart from breaking and most importantly can help a frown change into a smile. However, mistakes are common in human behaviour, mistakes make us what we are, it differntiates us from God. If we wouldn't commit mistakes we would not be humans, we would be more than that.

Therefore, even if blurt out some negative comments or words it shouldn't take too much of our time to apologize and just say 'sorry'........For 'sorry' is a word that can help reduce the greatest distance, it can help in wiping the most negative vibes, although it may not help very much in healing a hurt or drawing back a tear......

It is therfore important for us to remember never to utter words that give others pain, for wounded hearts are broken and may never heal again.....

Adios! Cheers!

One day I wrote....

2011-08-09T13:33:00.000-07:00

Its that one day when you are sitting alone, possibly after watching a really nice movie, where the words caught your attention more than the story, the cute actor and all that scenery. Or it could also be after you have just finished reading a book, you so eagerly wanted to finish, and now that its over you have no idea what to do....

It was possibly one of these days, few years ago; that I sat down with a pen and paper in my hand (how charming!) and began to write what follows below. I haven't edited it since then, but kept it with me, hoping to share it with some one who would be kind enough to have it heard (or read, for that matter).

Thus, kindly for give the immature words, pharses, writing.... And here it starts:

'Sometimes, the smallest things in the world can make us wonder, 'what is life all about?' Especially when you are all alone with your thoughts, you feel like questioning God as to what was his purpose behind creating this world, this universe, these people and more specifically 'you'?

From centuries it has been told and heard that there is always a reason behind everything; from the existence of the tiniest things on land to the out of the world stars, sun, all in all the whole universe. But the reason is what we fail to identify!

For ages there has been, what we call the 'struggle for success.' But life is not struggle. Nowhere in written records is it mentioned that life means struggle. Life is about 'loving, making an impact, forgiving and forgetting and enjoying; no matter what circumstances you are in!

Not every successful person is happy and not every happy person is successful. Therefore, it is true that life is what you make it and not what it makes you. Everyone is responsible for their own actions, both done and spoken.'

Awaiting comments, take care!

A dreamy wanderer

Spoken Words Can't Be Retrieved...

One day I wrote....